BDSM 5.10 – Pegging

Wondering what is pegging?

It’s the practice of a man being anally penetrated by a woman wearing a strap on dildo.

The term ‘pegging’ became known in 2001 when Dan Savage, an American journalist, held a naming competition as part of his ‘Savage Love’ sex advice column. He himself thinks that every man should try pegging at least once in their life!

Why choose to peg?

Whether you want to enjoy a bit of role reversal, intensify your BDSM play, or simply deliver orgasmic anal action, pegging promises to cater to all of your naughty needs. Simply strap it on and prepare for the ride of your life!

Safety First!

Do’s

• Go slowly, start by inserting the fingers and work your way up
• Use a condom on your dildo
• Use plenty of anal lubricant
• You may want to consider experimenting with butt plugs and anal beads before jumping into a strap on

Don’ts

• Choose a really large dildo, start small
• Force the dildo in, you need to insert it gradually and gently

So you’re still interested – Here’s how to start:

1. Prep Time – 3-4 hours prior, do a deep douche or enema, it’s important before starting that the bowels have been emptied.
2. Here are 3 most popular positions to choose from:
   1. The most comfortable choice for pegging beginner’s  – Lying on the back in a missionary position.
   2. Bent over a surface slightly lower than waist height.
   3. Kneeling down, bent over the edge of the bed.
3. Cover it up: want to keep things easy to clean up – use a condom! Also, if you multiple partners you’ll definitely want to play it safe by using a condom
4. Lube, Lube & Lube some more – You’ll want to lube both the dildo and the anus area – you’ll want to be able to go in smoothly!
5. Go it slow – go in a few centimeters at a time, take it slow – don’t use force
6. Put on the move! – push forward slowly and gently, placing your hands on your lovers hips for support.
7. Listen/watch your lovers reactions to gauge if your pace, depth etc is providing pleasure, if not adjust as needed.

How to choose one – so many choices

1. Strapless Strap On’s
2. Strap On Harness
3. Dildo Type

Strapless:

           

Pros

• Shaft is perfectly contoured to deliver incredible prostate stimulation
• Clitoral stimulation
• Vaginal stimulation
• Condom safe

Cons

• Your PC muscles (pubococcygeus muscle) may not be strong enough to hold the strapless strap on in place without a bit of practice first

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Strap on:

Most Popular Style is the – O-ring Harness

Pros

• You can choose your dildo (as long as it has a flared base)
• Keeps dildo in place for perfect penetration
• Boast stunning features which will add to the aesthetics in your sex play
• You can keep your pegging play fresh with various attachments

Cons

• You may still need to guide with the hand for perfect positioning
• Might rotate – again, you may need to hold with hand when going in

How do I choose the right Dildo?

1. Start small and choose a smooth dildo for optimum glide and comfort
2. Choose a silicone dildo as they are body safe, non porous and easily sterilized
3. Decided on an O-ring harness, make sure that the dildo flares out at the bottom; you don’t want your toy to get lost!

We recommend the Bend Over Beginner Harness Kit

 

*Pegging image credit: “Wiki-pegging” by Seedfeeder – Own work by uploader. All original non-derivative.. Licensed under Public domain via Wikimedia Commons – http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Wiki-pegging.png#mediaviewer/File:Wiki-pegging.png